Sometimes in our lives, we all have pain, we all have sorrow
But, if we are wise, we know that there’s always tomorrow.
I want to sing this downtown this winter break. Someone join me
yooo everybody. my mom and i were goofing around and found this seriously FUCKED UP site. all your information, (phone number, nam, address even) is available for 2.99. like everything. please watch this video on how to remove it. (im not sure if it’s there for minors, but if you’ve ever owned/rented a house you’re definitely there. it’s worth checking it out to make sure.)
video on how to remove information. : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JPFLagxnDsA
fucked up website: http://www.spokeo.com/
also, if you’ve lived in more than one place/state it has you multiple times, remove all of your profile things. (it had my mom 4 times, all over our state. even from when she lived in a house 9 years ago.)
SIGNAL BOOST THIS SHIT
YES THERE ARE MINORS ON HERE ALSO I JUST CHECKED ME AND IT HAS MY ~PERSONAL~ INFO ON THERE
This is very concerning. I just spent the last ten minutes removing my entire family (including my 14-year-old sister) from the site.
Cool Mom Tech has a guide on how to take your information off the site if for some reason you can’t watch the above video.
Just to inform everyone, it’s American only, but it’s real. I’ve found 3 of my friends already with this sight and the only reason I knew it was them was because I happen to have their address. PLEASE CONFIRM IF YOU ARE ON THIS SITE AND IF YOU ARE, REMOVE YOURSELF. NOW.
I’m screaming internally because I just searched up a handful of my friends who live in America.. and found every single one of them without fail. This is scary.
Ok I have to do this now.
Okay so I found my parents. And lemme tell you, it freaks me the fuck out.
EVERYONE DO THIS.
I found my parents on this and it had their work address, our home address, our phone number, whole lot of shit that shouldn’t be available to everyone.
I highly suggest taking down profiles of people you care about, especially the older ones.
THIS IS SO FUCKING CREEPY HOW IS THIS EVEN LEGAL OH MY GOD.
My mom met this guy online and the other day he texted her with our address and said “I know where you live” cause of this fucking site.
What the heck………
ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?
During a seminar, a woman asked,” How do I know if I am with the right person?”
The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, “It depends. Is that your partner?”
In all seriousness, she answered “How did you know?”
“Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind.” replied the author.
Here’s the answer:
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.
People in love sometimes say, I was swept of my feet. Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this)
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the Person you found.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know
WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.
Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is therefore a “decision”. Not just a feeling.
Remember this always: the universe determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go!
why doesn’t this have more notes
climb a mountain together
This was something I really needed right now.
This post is almost all right. Except God determines who walks into your life, not the universe. The universe is just a created location God put us in, how can an inanimate object make a decision for you? :P
More importantly, this post hits the spot right on. People need to understand that the fairy tale misconception that a healthy relationship takes no effort and requires no work to keep things dandy is wrong. Communication is imperative in relationships. There just may be a time when the two of you are so synchronized that you can finish one another’s sentences, or communicate entire messages with a simple look or nod, or just in general live life like two ballroom dancers - trusting each other to be exactly where they need to be exactly when they need to be there. However, that takes practice, communication and commitment to get there. Which two dancers who don’t know each other can suddenly perform in perfect harmony a new dance move that requires years of falling, injury and sweat to pull off? If we keep our hearts wondering whether or not the person in front of us is the “right one” because we seem out of sync when things settle down, and not work towards building the relationship, we’ll never reach that point of harmony that we sought to have since before we even entered the relationship.
as a big sister, I can vouch that this scene is 100% accurate to how sisterly relationships function.
cuties. pure cuties.
I woke up my sister on her birthday this year by laying on top of her.
My sister turned 19.
I am 24.
awww hahaha I wish I had siblings :P